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Kylie and Zoe
KYLIE'S STORY
Kylie* was a mom of two and had just started a new relationship when she found out that she was pregnant. She felt that she wasn’t ready, and even though her boyfriend was excited to be a dad, Kylie decided to have an abortion.
She quickly regretted this decision, especially as she and her boyfriend struggled to get pregnant again over the following years. She was overjoyed to find out she was pregnant in the summer of 2019 with a baby boy.
And then, when her son was seven months old, she found out that she was pregnant again with twins. Kylie felt overwhelmed and that she couldn’t go through with the pregnancy as her boyfriend was out of town quite a bit. The financial strain of raising five children on her own was just too much.
Hoping to get more answers, Kylie reached out to Real Options. She was still on the fence about getting an abortion, but after discussing the many resources that were available she realized she had all the support she needed!
Sadly, one of the twins passed before birth. Real Options was there for Kylie at that time as well, so she knew that she wasn’t alone. They provided her with counseling services and a baby shower. They gave her the support that she needed and became the family that she didn’t have.
“Now that my boyfriend is temporarily away, I still don’t feel alone. I know I have my family at Real Options and they are only one call away…If I didn’t come to Real Options, I would not have chosen life for my daughter. For that, we are forever grateful!”
*Name changed for privacy
Support the efforts of pregnancy help organizations today so that moms like Kiley are encouraged and equipped to choose life for their little ones.
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Why it’s a good thing pregnancy centers outnumber abortion clinics
It takes more to help a woman choose life versus an abortion procedure
(The Washington Times) It takes more to do more.
Abortion proponents are suddenly very concerned about the fact pregnancy help centers outnumber abortion clinics. In fact, pregnancy help centers have outnumbered abortion clinics in the United States since the mid-1990s. That was when the surge of new pregnancy centers in the mid-’80s and the steady opening of new locations overtook the number of abortion clinics.
Now, two decades later, pregnancy help centers and their local, grassroots support fueled continuous growth into the new millennium. As we step into the post-Roe era, there are nearly four pregnancy centers for every one abortion clinic.
As state abortion bans take effect, even Planned Parenthood is announcing location closures, despite the fact that they, at least in their name, exist to support parenthood. Or do they? A look at Planned Parenthood’s own list of services reveals literally nothing to do with actual, you know, parenthood.
A few years ago, the creative marketing team at Planned Parenthood tried to convince everyone that “abortion is only 3%” of their business. So why are Planned Parenthood locations in life states closing following an abortion ban? Clearly, it’s not due to their parenthood products. But then there are the supposed 97% of their “women’s services” that are intended to help women, right? Apparently not. It seems as though they were willing to stay open to do abortions, but not to serve women.
Yet, somehow, abortion supporters like Sen. Elizabeth Warren are gravely concerned.
“In Massachusetts right now, those crisis pregnancy centers … outnumber true abortion clinics by three to one,” Ms. Warren told NBC 10 Boston. “We need to shut them down here in Massachusetts and we need to shut them down all around the country.”
Like Planned Parenthood, Ms. Warren is more concerned about abortion than about women who are pregnant and need help for any other choice.
While an abortion provider needs only a matter of minutes to terminate a pregnancy, a pregnancy center spends hours, days, weeks and even months helping women choose to carry their baby to term. Selling and executing abortions is a big money-maker (see Planned Parenthood’s previous annual reports). A significant portion of big abortion money goes to support politicians like Ms. Warren. (The dirty little secret of the abortion industry is that they’ve switched their model from selling abortions in stand-alone clinics to easily mailed chemical abortions over the last several years.)
Meanwhile, local pregnancy help centers, especially those that are in abortion states, faithfully help women through their pregnancy and into parenting or the chance to choose adoptive parents. Thanks to kind-hearted community donations, pregnancy centers provide things like maternity clothes, prenatal vitamins, parenting classes and baby items.
Pregnancy help centers invest time and attention in understanding the environment swirling around an unexpected pregnancy. Uncovering unhealthy relationship dynamics can serve to help reset a positive path forward toward the vision of the future she wants.
It takes more pregnancy centers because there is more to do to help a woman choose life for her baby versus the relatively quick abortion procedure. To adequately serve America’s pregnant women, it will take even more, not fewer like Ms. Warren wants, because women should never be forced into only the choice of abortion. That is no choice at all, especially when the pressure to abort is coming from other people or temporary circumstances. Every woman should be loved and supported in her pregnancy. That takes more.
The path to parenting is longer. Sometimes that makes it harder. And for the families thriving today thanks to the help of a pregnancy center, it is certainly worth the investment.
Life Trends Report

Heartbeat International and its network of more than 3,800 pregnancy help service providers worldwide work tirelessly to offer hope and help to women and families experiencing unexpected pregnancies. From this network of care, we can discover and evaluate trends within the movement and use them to inform and encourage others on the work accomplished.
The Life Trends Report provides a snapshot of life-affirming pregnancy help. Understanding these trends gives us clarity as the culture shifts and changes over time.
The 2025 Life Trends Report is based on 2024 data and helps us better understand what clients are seeking while also offering key insights to share about the positive impact of pregnancy help.
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Key Findings from the Report:
- 2,164,043 total client visits to affiliated pregnancy help organizations in 2024
- 498 maternity homes in the U.S., a 17% increase since 2022
- 172% growth in organizations providing virtual support
Our affiliate pregnancy help centers (PHCs) offer a broad range of services—from abstinence education and STD testing/treatment to Abortion Pill Rescue and parenting classes.
- 71.4% provide Abortion Recovery services
- 26% are part of the Abortion Pill Rescue Network
- 75% provide ultrasound
- 82% offer material aid for families
- 47% provide men's mentoring programs
Abortion Trend: Increased Access with Little Oversight
According to ANSIRH at the University of California, while brick-and-mortar abortion facilities dropped from 758 in 2020 to 741 in 2023, 226 new virtual abortion clinics opened in 2023—resulting in 967 total access points, the most in over a decade.
- Abortions rose from 930,160 in 2020 to over 1 million in 2023
- Telehealth abortions accounted for 20% of all U.S. abortions by mid-2024
- Mail-order pill sites like Plan C and Aid Access complicate tracking, as they are not required to report
Life Trend: Women Seek Real Humans in a Time of Need
- Option Line calls rose from 48% of connections in 2022 to 64% in 2024, showing the need for direct, human support in crisis moments
Life Trend: Abortion Pill Reversal
The Abortion Pill Rescue® Network (APRN) connects women who regret taking the first dose of the abortion pill regimen with a network of medical professionals trained in reversal protocol.
- 6,000+ lives saved since 2012
- Approximately 2,000 lives saved in 2024
- Nearly 200 women begin reversal each month
- Women from all 50 states and 96 countries contacted APRN
- 47% increase in reversal starts since 2020
- Women seek APR services throughout the week due to mail-order abortion pill access
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Pregnancy Help Podcast
Welcome to Pregnancy Help Podcast where we tackle large issues affecting the pregnancy help community through weekly conversations with experts around the country.
Powered by Heartbeat International, we bring Pregnancy Help News alive with podcasts featuring a variety of topics designed to help strengthen and educate the pregnancy help network.
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The American Medical Association Wants to Hide Facts About Abortion from Women
By Caroline Roberts, Strategic Communications Writer at Alliance Defending Freedom
Tina was 35 when she found out she was pregnant. She was working full-time and happily married, but she feared how her employer would respond to the news. So, she decided to get an abortion. But as soon as she started the chemical abortion process, she was filled with regret. She wanted another option, another opportunity to choose life.
“I hated what I had done. I stayed up all night worrying that I made the wrong choice,” she writes. “I started praying. The next morning I frantically looked online to see if I had any options to save my baby. I found the abortion pill reversal website and called the hotline.”
Thankfully, Tina was connected with a clinic who was able to administer progesterone in an attempt to stop the abortive process—and it worked.
“After receiving progesterone for a week, I came back for an ultrasound to see if the baby survived. He did. He was alive and well. He was saved… Without the option of the abortion pill reversal, he would not be here today.”
Tina’s story is a hopeful one. Because she sought out more information about all her options, she was able to choose life for her son. And she isn’t alone. Statistics show 1,000 women have successfully chosen to stop their chemical abortions, saving their pregnancies. But what would have happened if Tina hadn’t found the hotline? What if she had been unable to learn about additional options? Tina deserved to know from the start that abortion pill reversal was possible.
Women have the right to be fully informed about their medical procedures. They should have complete disclosure of the process, the risks, and what’s at stake—especially when it’s a life.
Thankfully, the state of North Dakota agrees.
North Dakota has a crucial informed-consent law that ensures women who are considering abortion know two accurate, relevant things:
- That choosing abortion ends “the life of a whole, separate, unique, living human being.”
- That if the woman chooses, a chemical abortion may be stopped early in the process with the aid of Abortion Pill Reversal.
When women are given this information, they have a better understanding of the procedure and all their options. It’s their right to know.
But the American Medical Association (AMA) wants to keep women in the dark. It doesn’t want women to know that abortion takes a life or that they might have a second chance at choosing life for their babies if a chemical abortion is treated quickly.
In fact, the AMA so desperately doesn’t want women to have this information that it’s taking North Dakota to court. In June 2019, the AMA filed a lawsuit challenging North Dakota’s informed-consent statute and trying to strike down these two provisions that give women critical medical information. AMA—which has been hijacked by pro-abortion interests--doesn’t want women to have all the scientific facts.
The AMA claims that requiring doctors to inform women of all their options surrounding an abortion violates the free speech rights of medical professionals. Apparently, the AMA doesn’t understand informed consent.
That’s why Alliance Defending Freedom (ADF) client, Heartbeat International, intervened in this case to support North Dakota’s statute—and the right of women everywhere to make decisions with all the facts.
“Every woman deserves to know the whole truth about abortion, and that includes the facts about her child and the choices she can make every step of the way,” ADF Legal Counsel Denise Harle said. “The American Medical Association, which ought to support providing patients with as much information as possible, instead wants to keep vulnerable women in the dark about vital information about fetal development and their pregnancy options prior to an abortion. Women deserve to know the truth.”
How many women like Tina would jump at the chance to reverse the effects of their chemical abortions if given the option? And how many more women like Tina have wanted to make that choice in the past—but didn’t know they had it?
“I am thankful I found the information readily available online and for the caring nurse who talked to me and to the doctor,” Tina recalls. “She is my son’s angel. Thank you for giving us a second chance.”
The bottom line is that women have the right to know all the details and options available to them during any medical procedure. Why should abortions be any different?
This article originally appeared on adflegal.org.
>> Learn more about the Abortion Pill Rescue Network and how it is saving lives!
Pregnancy Centers Affected by Louisiana Flooding
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Heartbeat International’s leadership and staff have checked in on our affiliate network, both to offer these vital partners help through our H.A.L.O. fund—which meets Heartbeat-affiliated organizations damaged by natural disasters with needed funds to replace training materials—and to let you know how you can be supporting these friends in prayer.
If you would like to contribute to Heartbeat International’s H.A.L.O. fund, you can do so at www.HeartbeatServices.org/fund-halo. You can also give directly to the pregnancy help organizations below by starting a fundraiser page at www.YouSaveBabies.org.
Crossroads Pregnancy Resource Center – Thibodaux, Louisiana
Though Crossroads’ location was not damaged in the floods, the daughter of Executive Director Michele Beary was in the middle of moving into her college residence at Louisiana State in Baton Rouge when the storm hit. Her car was lost in the flood, but she was unharmed.
“The scope of the disaster is unreal and heartbreaking,” Michele, who formerly lived in Ascension Parish—which was badly damaged in the storm—tells us. “Please let everyone know how much their prayers for us are appreciated. God bless.”
The Women’s Help Center – Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Barbara Thomas, founder of the Family Values Resource Institute, which runs The Women’s Help Center, tells us one of her team members has sustained damage to their home over the past week.
Pregnancy Help Center – Slidell, Louisiana
Thankfully, this center was unaffected by the storms. When Heartbeat International called to check in on these friends, they were in the process of deciding how they could actively support any life-saving that was affected by the disaster.
Women’s Life Ministries Pregnancy Center – Amite, Louisiana
Though spared from major flooding damage, this outreach reports having lost some of their office equipment in a lightning strike. Because the center is located in a high place, it is fast becoming a key location for flood relief in the community. CEO Teresa Ragusa tells us her organization is busy receiving supplies to help distribute to clients and neighbors.
Iberia Pregnancy Center – New Iberia, Louisiana
Iberia Pregnancy Center’s staff reports that, though their street was flooded and flood waters came almost up to their doors, the center itself was untouched. Praise God for this wonderful protection, and please pray for clients and neighbors who have lost homes and property.
The following pregnancy help locations were also undamaged by the flood, though leaders at the centers did ask us to pray for their clients:
Hope Restored for Life (Houma, Louisiana), Community Center for Life (Gretna, Louisiana), Women's New Life Center (Metairie and Baton Rouge, Louisiana), Northlake Crisis Pregnancy Center (Covington, Louisiana)
If you would like to contribute to Heartbeat International’s H.A.L.O. fund, you can do so at www.HeartbeatServices.org/fund-halo. You can also give directly to the pregnancy help organizations below by starting a fundraiser page at www.YouSaveBabies.org.
UPDATE: Care Pregnancy Clinic in Baton Rouge Reports Severe Damage
Dorothy Wallis, president and CEO of Caring to Love Ministries—which runs an unaffiliated pregnancy help center, reports having sustained an estimated $425,000 in damages to its building.
Although the rebuilding effort will take several months at the absolute minimum, Dorothy tells us a local abortion clinic was unaffected by the flood and Care Pregnancy Clinic continues to receive calls from abortion-vulnerable women.
Knowing the opportunism of the abortion industry that offered free morning-after pills in the wake of Hurricane Katrina in 2005 and free abortions to New Yorkers in the days following the terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, 2001, Dorothy knows there is no time to lose in reaching women with life-saving help.
Dorothy is asking for an RV (loan or donation) her organization can to set up as a mobile ultrasound unit as soon as possible.
To find out how you can help Dorothy and Care Pregnancy Clinic, click here.
Do you know of more pregnancy help organizations affected by the recent floods? Let us know at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
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Thank you for all you do to support our vital ministry, which is saving a baby from the violence of abortion every 4 minutes in the U.S. alone.
5 Pregnancy Center 'Charges' We Wish Were True
"A lie told often enough becomes the truth."
-Vladimir Lenin, architect of the Soviet Union
If there's one thing Big Abortion loves to do, it's spread lies about pregnancy help centers. Most of these falsehoods are simply restatements of the same lies trumped up several years ago, repackaged, microwaved, and dished up as a new piece of "investigative journalism," which is neither investigative nor journalistic in nature.
Watching the zombie-like existence of these lies, there are at least five lies spread about pregnancy help organizations (PHOs)—or CPCs, the outdated moniker favored by our opponents—we wish were true.
1. "CPCs are often located near clinics that provide abortion services."
To be fair, it is true that some PHOs are located near abortion clinics. But, with around 2,500 pregnancy centers in the U.S. compared to only about 600 abortion clinics, it's getting harder and harder for a PHC to locate itself near an abortion clinic. Still, we estimate that about half of U.S. abortion clinics have no PHC located next or even near to them. If it were true that every abortion clinic had a PHO next door, women facing with unexpected or difficult pregnancies would have more options than just abortion.
The funny thing is, any time this "charge" is made by an abortion apologist, it's as if they expect the reader or audience to shudder in dismay at this "deceptive" practice. To avoid future misunderstanding, let's make it clear: We are indeed going after the same woman as the abortion industry. The only difference lies in what we offer and why.
Motivated by compassion for the mother and her child, a PHO offers life-affirming help and accurate information to help a mother make the best decision she can, most often covering her cost entirely. Motivated by profit, an abortion facility offers to take one life, while endangering another, all for financial gain.
2. "CPCs Say Abortion is Dangerous."
A Sept. 2014 article at RH Reality Check included the following charge:
Extensive dissemination of scientifically inaccurate information was reported by undercover investigators. Common misinformation provided by CPC volunteers included claims that abortion is a dangerous procedure, that abortion causes breast cancer, and that abortion causes emotional and psychological trauma.
This is probably the most repeated lie about PHOs. It's based on the presuppositions that abortion isn't a dangerous procedure, abortions don't have anything to do with breast cancer, and those who've had abortion never experience emotional or psychological trauma.
While abortion would still be a problem, we wish abortions didn't kill or harm women who sought them, (Kermit Gosnell anyone?) expose them to greater risk of breast cancer, or often result in deep regret and mental anguish. Denying this truths and repeating that PHOs are lying about them is truly insulting to the millions of women—and men—who have firsthand knowledge of the truth. Furthermore, it prevents those who would otherwise be warned from dealing with the truly dangerous reality of abortion.
If only. PHOs can't "prevent people... from accessing abortion," nor do we try. Sadly, abortion is a legal right—still until birth in many states—and fully accessible to those who can pay for them. As those who know all too well the realities of abortion (many within the pregnancy help community know from firsthand experience), we wish we could prevent others from experiencing the heartache, danger, or long-term impact that follows such a permanent decision.
But, since our convictions are colored by our compassion, PHOs take the time with each woman to create an environment where she can see all of her options, including parenting, making an adoption plan, and, even, abortion. An informed decision is the best decision. We firmly believe that the healthiest decision for all involved is a life-affirming one.
4. "CPCs hide that they're almost entirely funded by national anti-choice umbrella organizations..."
If PHOs are hiding this, they're doing a much better job of it than abortion zealots could ever dream. That's because they must be hiding it from us—Heartbeat International, Care-Net, NIFLA, and everyone else representing their life-giving work.
Fact is, the overwhelming majority of funding for PHOs comes from individuals who value life-affirming outreach. The community members know well that the government does very little (if anything) to champion the life of its smallest citizens, or respond generously to help lives and lifetimes we will probably never know or see (this side of heaven).
And this generosity doesn't just pour in, but requires diligent fundraising efforts to ensure missional budgets are fulfilled. Wouldn't it be so much easier if, as the report states, PHOs were "entirely funded by" an umbrella organization? As an alleged "umbrella organization" ourselves, we wish we had the type of resources to be able to do just that!
5. "There are more than 4,000 CPCs across the country."
But who's counting? Well, we are. Heartbeat International's Worldwide Directory of Pregnancy Help is the most comprehensive list of pregnancy help organizations anywhere. We count just shy of 2,500 pregnancy help organizations in the U.S., and closer to 2,800 if you add the pregnancy support focused Birthright centers as well.
Of course, we wish there were another 1,000+ places for women and men to access compassionate care and meaningful services to ensure that every woman felt loved and supported during her pregnancy.
In fact, maybe that's not a bad five-year goal...
by Jor-El Godsey, Vice President, Heartbeat International
Nov. 7, 2014
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Deceptive Pregnancy Center Set to Open in Indiana
by Jay Hobbs, Director of Communications and Marketing
Oct. 24, 2014
With the last dollar of its $25,000 crowdsourcing campaign spoken for, All-Options Pregnancy Resource Center is one step closer to opening its doors in Bloomington, Indiana.
And the moment that happens, abortion enthusiasts' long-held hopes will have come true. Finally, finally, there will be a fake, deceptive pregnancy center in operation.
You see, All-Options is abortion crusaders' best attempt to muddy the waters of the 2,500 true pregnancy help locations serving U.S. women and families with accurate information, compassion, and hope.
Heralded by the radically pro-abortion RH Reality Check as a "first-of-its-kind" (apparently in the same respect that a possumburger stand would be first of its kind), All-Options is a classic case of, "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em."
That is, since countless and repeated campaigns have failed to cast pregnancy help organizations as a lurking, deceptive enemy, the opponents of life have switched tactics and joined our ranks. To them we say, welcome.
Breaking the "Monopoly"
The story of All-Options starts with Backline, a pregnancy "Talkline" established to parody pregnancy helplines such as Option Line® that frontline life-savers have been answering since the late 1960s.
Backline's founder, Grayson Dempsey, earned her chops with Planned Parenthood and NARAL Pro-Choice America, and has since moved on to her present gig at RH Reality Check—whose webpage, incidentally, includes an ad for a particularly gauche fundraising event called, "Tacos. Beers. Abortion."
Now looking to further the cause of aborting boys and girls everywhere, All-Options seeks to break the existing "monopoly on supporting parents and people who are continuing their pregnancies."
"It's time to reclaim the pregnancy center model in the spirit of true all-options counseling," the organization told supporters on its CrowdRise.com campaign. While there is much for pregnancy help organizations to emulate from the cutting-edge campaign itself, there's just not much truth in the idea that "the pregnancy center model" is something for abortion zealots to "reclaim."
Grammar lessons aside, truth is never threatened by fabrication. That's why we welcome All-Options, and we celebrate the great work God will do in spite of their best intentions.
Truth and the Power of Choice
We are confident, that as Executive Director J. Parker Dockray and her team seek to "reclaim the pregnancy center model in the spirit of true all-options counseling," women will continue to reject abortion as unwanted, just as they do every day in pregnancy help organizations all around the world.
The fact is, most mothers have abortions not because it's legal, but because they believe they have no other choice. Empowered with true choice by the compassionate staff and volunteers at pregnancy help organizations, an estimated 90 percent of women served choose life for themselves and their children.
No pregnant mother should feel so alone and hopeless that she ends her child's life through abortion. That's why Heartbeat International's pregnancy help organizations provide true compassion, support, and real choice for the mother, her family, and the community.
Ulterior motives aside, if All-Options is about that same mission, then they may need to stock up on more material supplies like diapers and bottles than they're expecting.
(Of course, All-Options will do its work with one arm tied behind its back, since the $25K does not include a dime toward ultrasound equipment—a curious oversight by an organization ostensibly looking to provide insight into "all options.")
As such, All-Options has some catching up to do, with well over half of Heartbeat's affiliate pregnancy resource centers already offering free ultrasound services to women who are wrestling with the often-harsh realities surrounding an unexpected or difficult pregnancy.
What about "listening?"
Included in All-Options' "New Vision of Support" is the poignant, if unoriginal, statement, "Sometimes it seems like everyone has an opinion about what you should do, and it's hard to find someone who will just listen." (emphasis original)
To sit with a woman and truly listen to her, hearing her story and validating her as a person, is essential to the woman-centered peer counseling pregnancy help organizations have been committed to for over 40 years.
In fact, truly listening to a woman and helping her to see all of her options are keys to Heartbeat International's foundational volunteer training resource, The LOVE Approach™, which has sold over 17,000 copies since it was first introduced in 1994.
Listening to a woman, helping her to see her options and recapture a healthy vision of herself, and empowering her to walk forward in hope—this goes to the very core of why Heartbeat International, our network of frontline life-savers, and 24/7, 365 pregnancy helpline, OptionLine® exist.
So, welcome to the game, All-Options. You have so much to learn. Don't worry, though: We'll keep an eye on you.
Together, We've Reached an Amazing Milestone!
Together, We've Reached an Amazing Milestone!On July 16, at 12:08 am, a Heartbeat International Option Line consultant answered a call. The young woman on the other end of the line was looking for abortion information. She needed someone, especially when she felt most alone. Option Line—Heartbeat’s 24/7 helpline—was there. And, the young woman was referred to help in her community, Heartbeat affiliate in Northeastern, Ohio. But what was so special about this midnight call? After all, Option Line has been reaching women with life-affirming help and hope for nearly 100,000 consecutive hours—including holidays—and carefully connecting women in need with local Pregnancy Help Centers. This particular call was worthy to celebrate because it marked the 2 millionth time Option Line has answered since we first said, "Hello," in 2003! |
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Your financial support has helped Option Line realize one of the five original goals of Heartbeat founders back in 1971. "I am so thankful the Lord has allowed Heartbeat's Option Line to be an amazing instrument bringing help and hope to so many," says Peggy Hartshorn, Ph.D., who has been at Heartbeat's helm for 22 years. That's why we invite YOU to celebrate with us, because it is truly “our” celebration together! Please consider giving a gift today to commemorate this milestone. It costs $4.00 to answer each call at Heartbeat’s Option Line. How many calls can you answer today through your gift? (Click here to see the power of one call.) Without your prayerful and financial partnership, Option Line would be unable to answer the call—via phone, live chat, email, and text—of themore than 15,000 women reached every month 24/7. Thank you for faithfully partnering with us each and every day to answer the call of women in need through Heartbeat’s Option Line. We are grateful to reach this goal together and look forward to the future! |
Update: For the LOVE of Germany
Did you hear the one about the lawyer who traveled overseas and taught a bunch of U.S. military families how to better serve women facing unexpected pregnancies?
Fair enough, there’s not much promise for a joke in that question, but you have to admit, the latest Heartbeat International international training does sound a bit peculiar when you first hear about it.
The story took place October 25, when Ellen Foell, Heartbeat’s legal counsel, taught a day-long session of The LOVE Approach™ to a group of 28 staff, volunteers, and potential volunteers at Heartbeat Crisis Pregnancy Center in Ramstein, Germany.
The center, under the direction of Carrie Beliles, primarily serves U.S. military personnel and their families stationed at Ramstein Air Base, home of the 86th Airlift Wing and headquarters of U.S. Air Forces Europe.
“It was the first time teaching this material, so I really didn’t quite know what to expect,” Foell, who has been with Heartbeat International since 2012, said. “God really put two things on my heart that I tried to express to the group: The first was to encourage them to embrace their unique, God-given giftedness, and the second was to allow themselves to be released to really exercise that giftedness as they sought to serve women coming to the center.”
“It really was great to watch this group wrestle through how to apply The LOVE Approach to the real situations involving real human beings they are dealing with every day.”
While the majority of attendees were Americans connected to the military community in Ramstein, one participant came from another part of Germany with the hope to launch a pregnancy help organization in another part of Germany.
According to Heartbeat International’s Worldwide Directory, there are currently 114 pregnancy help organizations in Germany, although Heartbeat Crisis Pregnancy Center is the only Heartbeat International affiliate.
“These servants learned how to handle a great tool, and that was encouraging to see,” Foell said. “I was really impressed by the cross-section of ages and generations, and thrilled to see the seeds of more pregnancy help organizations being planted in Germany.”
Foell was joined by Heartbeat International Vice President Jor-El Godsey, who keynoted the center’s annual banquet and facilitated a meeting with European pro-life leaders during a three-day span Oct. 24-26 in Ramstein.
Marius and The Myth of Unwantedness
On one hand, it’s encouraging to see the international community’s outrage over the weekend at what can only be described as the euthanasia of a perfectly healthy, yet—tragically “unwanted”—resident of Copenhagen, Denmark named Marius.
On the other hand, the fact that Marius was an 11-foot-tall giraffe puts things into perspective.
Marius, a giraffe born in captivity, found himself in the lethal position of “unwantedness” by possessing what Animal Rights Sweden called, not “interesting enough,” genes, and his very existence posed the potential threat of inbreeding, which if you’re running a zoo, is apparently problematic.
Despite attempts to spare Marius’ life that included lucrative offers by individuals and at least one European wildlife park, along with “Save Marius” petition that garnered 27,000 signatures, “Marius was fed some rye bread at 9.15am and was killed shortly after by a shot in the head with a bolt gun,” to quote The Guardian of London.
But the kind of civility shown in these rescue efforts—and reflected in the kind of sentence in one of the world’s most respected newspapers that indirectly humanizes a giraffe—was also matched by multiple death threats against zoo officials, one of which threatened the children of two zoo administrators.
It appears the world isn’t buying into the whole idea of “unwanted” after all. At least not where giraffes are concerned.
Two and half years ago, 56 exotic animals broke loose from a private citizen’s backyard in Zanesville, Ohio, leading to what has become known as the “Zanesville Animal Massacre,” which included the killing of 18 rare Bengal tigers.
I was working at a restaurant with a friend of mine that night, and I remember being floored, not so much by the news, but by her reaction. It was the kind of reaction a person and a society tends to have at pivotal moments in history: the bombing of Pearl Harbor, the assassination of President Kennedy, the terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center.
Might I remind you, Marius and the Zanesville Animal Massacre are both stories about animals.
Is there no corresponding outrage when it comes to human beings?
Worldwide unrest occurs overnight when a zoo takes “unwanted” life. Society shudders at the thought of “massacring” animals that, now on the loose, pose a lethal and immediate threat to human life. Death threats against children are made in the name of the protection of animals.
And yet, the value we set on a human life rests solely on her mother’s decision. “Is my child wanted?”
We don’t allow ourselves the personal and societal outrage that this “choice” by a mother (and often by influences other than the mother herself) leads to the death of over 3,000 human beings every day in the United States alone, but we do allow ourselves outrage when it comes to giraffes and Bengal tigers.
Let me add the caveat here that I love animals. At one point in my life, I proudly subscribed to Cat Fancy, and I’m about 10 times more excited than my 3-year-old daughter every time we visit the Columbus Zoo—where we have an annual pass. I hope she and her baby sister will learn to see every window into God’s glory that giraffes, Bengal tigers, and whitetail deer have to offer. I hope they learn that from me.
Deeper than that, as a believer, I’m convinced by Scripture that my treatment of animals has plenty to say about my heart. I’m thinking here about Proverbs 12:10, which says, “Whoever is righteous has regard for the life of his beast, but the mercy of the wicked is cruel.”
But I am bound and determined to make the most of opportunities like Marius’ afford us, to expose the fact that the emperor isn’t wearing any clothes. The elephant is in the room, whether you want him there or not.
Wantedness didn’t change the fact that Marius was a giraffe. Wantedness didn’t determine Marius’ inherent giraffeness. Unwantedness didn’t un-giraffe him, it led to his execution.
If you, Planned Parenthood, or my congressman can explain to me how wantedness determines humanness, I’d like to hear it. Until then, let’s do everything we possibly can to protect life—starting with the humans.
About Heartbeat International
Heartbeat International is the first network of pro-life pregnancy help organizations founded in the U.S. (1971), and now the largest and most expansive network in the world. With 1,800 affiliated pregnancy help locations—including pregnancy help medical clinics (with ultrasound), resource centers, maternity homes, and adoption agencies—Heartbeat serves on all six inhabited continents to provide alternatives to abortion. For more information, see www.HeartbeatInternational.org.
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by Jay Hobbs, Communications Assistant